It's been a few months since my husband's mother passed away. The sharpest point of grief has passed. We miss her, but we can talk about losing her without breaking down. That's progress, I suppose.
We were so focused on helping her live. We made sure we did what she wanted to do for her while she was alive. We did have a difficult conversation about where to find what we were going to need should she die, but we really thought she was going to live. We didn't double check.
This is a shout out to all of you who may think they have a current will.
You might not.